Tuesday, Jan. 31, 2012

Of winter’s lifeless world each tree

Now seems a perfect part;

Yet each one holds summer’s secret

Deep down within its heart.

~ Charles G. Stater

Monday, Jan. 30, 2012

There are two seasonal diversions that can ease the bite of any winter. One is the January thaw.  The other is the seed catalogues.

—  Hal Borland

Saturday & Sunday, Jan. 28 & 29, 2012

Celebrate Kansas Day, commemorating the admission of the state as the 34th in the Union on Jan. 29, 1861.

Friday, Jan. 27, 2012

January is the quietest month in the garden.  …  But just because it looks quiet doesn’t mean that nothing is happening.  The soil, open to the sky, absorbs the pure rainfall while microorganisms convert tilled-under fodder into usable nutrients for the next crop of plants.  The feasting earthworms tunnel along, aerating the soil and preparing it to welcome the seeds and bare roots to come.

—  Rosalie Muller Wright

Thursday, Jan. 26, 2012

To read a poem in January is as lovely as to go for a walk in June.

— Jean-Paul Sartre

To help you understand the CSSJ Federation and the novitiate

The “family tree” that is the Sisters of St. Joseph began with a single, small group of women in LePuy, France, in about 1650. And 362 years later, there are branches throughout the world.

In the United States, the independent communities of women religious who are a part of that genealogy form a loose cooperative organization called the U.S. Federation of Sisters of St. Joseph. The Sisters of St. Joseph of Concordia is one of about 20 individual congregations (depending on how your count them). Together there are roughly 7,000 Sisters of St. Joseph in the United States.

In the 1970s, the federation began inviting novices — women who have already spent a year in formal preparation for becoming a sister and discernment on their religious calling — and the formation directors from their congregations to come together four times a year. Those gatherings would be long weekends to study their common history, spirit and spirituality.

Through the 1980s and into the ’90s, more congregations took part, and the time devoted to the increasingly formal “novitiate program” increased.

“But this was never driven by the federation,” explains Sister Anne Davis, one of two federation novice directors and a Sister of St. Joseph of Carondelet-Los Angeles Province. “This was a response of the federation to the needs of the novices.”

As the 1990s ended, the federation approved what is now an eight-month residential program. That was offered for the first time in 2000, hosted by the Sisters of St. Joseph of Chambery in West Hartford, Conn.; 14 novices took part that year.

Other congregations have hosted the novitiate, and twice in the ensuing years there have been no novices in the program. This year is the first time the program has been hosted by the Congregation of St. Joseph — a community that formed when seven smaller communities (including the Sisters of St. Joseph of Wichita) merged in 2007 — and it is located at a house owned by the congregation in Chicago.

The other federation novice director is Sister Bernadette Dean, a member of the Congregation of St. Joseph (and formerly a member of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Nazareth, Mich.). Sister Bernadette has served in this role since 2006, while Sister Anne began her first year in August 2011.

Although there is some variation among congregations, the basic process for women who feel called to vowed religious life is this:

Postulancy — A year during which the woman lives with sisters in community to acquaint herself more fully with our life. She participates with sisters in prayer, communal life, meals and ministry and participates in classes designed specifically to orient her to life in community.

Novitiate — Following the postulancy the woman enters a two-year novitiate. During the first of these years, she continues to discern through prayer and study. In particular, she deepens her understanding of Scripture and studies the constitution of that specific congregation, as well as the vows, charism and spirituality. The second year is one of preparation for future ministry. (Traditionally, the woman may use the title “Sister” once she begins the novitiate.)

Temporary Profession — The woman professes the vows of chastity, poverty and obedience. She lives and ministers as a professed sister, experiencing more of religious life and continuing to discern and integrate her identity as a woman religious. This period is generally no less than three years.

Perpetual Profession — Through a lifelong commitment to live the vows of chastity, poverty and obedience, a sister dedicates herself to God, to unifying love in community and to serve a world in need.

Wednesday, Jan. 25, 2012

Winter is the time for comfort, for good food and warmth, for the touch of a friendly hand and for a talk beside the fire:  it is the time for home.

— Edith Sitwell

Two weeks in Kansas: A new experience for novices to share

The differences between Mary Preenika Dabrera and Monique Like Siswoyo are striking.

Monique was born and raised on the island of Java in Indonesia. One of five children, she left her home country in 2003 to study in the Netherlands for a year. Then she came to the United States, landing in Los Angeles, where she worked as a sushi chef, a retail sales woman and as a beautician at Macy’s. Outgoing and chatty, she laughs easily when English trips her up.

But there are also notable similarities. Did we mention that they are Sister Preenika and Sister Monique?

Together they make up the 2011-12 “class” of novices in the Sisters of St. Joseph. And this month they have come to Concordia after life journeys that have taken them literally thousands of miles from where they began.

Their two-week stay with the Sisters of St. Joseph of Concordia is part of their education as novices to understand that the Sisters of St. Joseph extend beyond just their individual congregations.

About a dozen years ago, the U.S. Federation of Sisters of St. Joseph — a cooperative organization of more than a dozen independent congregations that share a “genealogy” that began in LePuy, France, in 1650 — created the yearlong “novitiate” program, in which novices from all the congregations live and learn together. The idea, according to Sister Anne Davis — one of two federation novice directors and herself a Sister of St. Joseph of Carondelet who lives in Los Angeles — is to ensure that novices have a foundation in understanding the congregation’s history and mission, and to have a “peer group” of other sisters about their same age and experience. (For a related story CLICK HERE.)

For Preenika and Monique, that means they have each other to share this journey in religious life.

Preenika (pronounced PREE-ni-ka) recalls meeting Sisters of St. Joseph of Brentwood, N.Y., for the first time about four years ago.

“They helped me to listen to the Holy Spirit and discern God’s call in my life,” she says, explaining what led her to enter the congregation as a postulant in September 2009. For the next year and half, Preenika lived with seven sisters in St. Patrick Convent in Long Island City, N.Y. By then she felt she knew God’s call for her: “I am certain that this how I want to spend rest of my life,” she said. She became a novice in the Sisters of St. Joseph of Brentwood in May 2011, and last August she moved to Chicago to the house near Midway Airport that is the new home of the federation novitiate program.

While the Federation was deciding on a new location, Preenika had to wait to see where she would be going next. “I was dying to go to California,” she admits with a self-conscious laugh, “but I ended up being in Chicago.”

(She is not at all self-conscious about explaining the head scarf she now wears, laughing at the suggestion that it might have cultural significance to her. “It’s just fashion,” she explains lightly. She recently cut her hair very short and the scarf keeps her head warm in the Midwest winter.)

Upon arriving in Chicago, Preenika met fellow novice Monique, who first saw a Sister of St. Joseph of Orange, Calif., in a hospital lobby wearing a business suit. “I was surprised,” Monique recalls. “I never saw a sister wearing regular clothes.”

In fact, at the home in Java, Monique rarely saw sisters at all. There Catholic women religious live monastic lives in convents — and in habits — and do not reach out to the “neighbor” with apostolic works like Sisters of St. Joseph do.

And a life of reaching out to serve God and the people appealed to her; in July 2010, Monique entered the Sisters of St. Joseph of Orange as a postulant. In August 2011, she, too, moved to Chicago to be a part of the federation novitiate program. And the eight-month program includes their two-week stay in Concordia at Manna House of Prayer, where classroom work has focused on Ignatian spirituality, mysticism, centering prayer and the spirit of the Sisters of St. Joseph, among other topics.

But the Concordia sisters planned the schedule to include regular breaks from the classroom. There have been trips to very rural communities, a chance to volunteer at a local women’s center, being part of a packed house for a performance by the U.S. Air Force “Brass in Blue” band, a stint in the communal kitchen to create a supper of Asian cuisine and even a showing of  “The Wizard of Oz.”

“There’s just been a nice rhythm to the days,” said Sister Bernadette Dean, the other federation vocation director and a member of the Congregation of St. Joseph who lives in Nazareth, Mich. “We focus here (in the classroom) and then we are able to go out and experience Kansas.”

And that has been quite an experience for Preenika and Monique, who have always lived in much more urban environments. When asked if she could live someplace like Concordia, Preenika says yes — but first she would have to learn to drive; she has always lived where she can rely solely on public transportation.

When Monique is asked if she could live in a city of 5,000 population, her response is one of surprise: “That many?” she asks before breaking into laughter. “Where are they all?”

She may have a chance to meet a few more Concordians before she and Preenika, along with Sisters Anne and Bernadette, all head back to Chicago. Their novitiate program continues until May, when Monique will go back to Orange, Calif., and Preenika will return to the sisters of Brentwood, N.Y.

Monique will then begin preparation for professing her first vows, and expects that ceremony to be in July. Preenika has another year as a novice but expects to profess her vows in 2013.

They each understand that this is a different journey than that taken by most women in today’s world. But they are also clear that this is a journey that they are called to, and that fits them.

“Everyone asks, ‘Why do you want to be a sister?’” Preenika says. “No matter how I tried to answer it, people are not satisfied with my answers. If I tell them, ‘God loves me so much, so I want to serve God’s people and bring them closer to God,’ they don’t understand it. (But now) I am sharing my life with people who understand me well.”

Or, as Monique explains, “I see God’s people from many different backgrounds and challenge myself for opening my heart to create spaces for them. I love being a part of this inclusive community of God’s great love.”

 

 

Tuesday, Jan. 24, 2012

The shortest day has passed, and whatever nastiness of weather we may look forward to in January and February, at least we notice that the days are getting longer.  Minute by minute they lengthen out.  It takes some weeks before we become aware of the change.  It is imperceptible even as the growth of a child, as you watch it day by day, until the moment comes when with a start of delighted surprise we realize that we can stay out of doors in a twilight lasting for another quarter of a precious hour.

—   Vita Sackville-West

Monday, Jan. 23, 2012

The most pathetic person in the world is someone who has sight but has no vision.

— Helen Keller

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